Faced with all the pressures of modern society and their impact on children, parents are increasingly seeking support beyond conventional routes. Holistic specialist, mother of four and founder of Quester Therapies, AnneMarie Smellie, explains how holistic treatment can make a real difference to children struggling with anxiety, attention issues, low confidence and more.
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With three in four UK parents concerned about their child’s emotional wellbeing (NSPCC research), there is growing demand for compassionate, effective support that meets young children’s immediate needs. Whether it’s separation anxiety, outbursts or struggles with attention, these challenges are often rooted in how a child’s developing brain and body process the world around them.
Holistic therapy treats the whole child – emotionally, physically and neurologically. Rather than focusing solely on symptoms, it aims to uncover and address the root causes of behavioural and emotional difficulties.
At Quester Therapies, this means combining science-based assessments with gentle, natural techniques. Services include neuro-developmental movement, auditory retraining, nutritional guidance, hypnotherapy and kinesiology – all tailored to children aged five and up.
By supporting the nervous system, digestive health and emotional resilience in natural ways, families often see improvements in their child’s ability to focus, regulate emotions, and feel more confident in daily life.
Many parents are wary of turning to medication at an early age – and
while it may be necessary in some cases, holistic therapy offers a
gentle alternative to try first.
By supporting the nervous system, digestive health and emotional
resilience in natural ways, families often see improvements in their
child’s ability to focus, regulate emotions, and feel more confident in
daily life.
This approach can work hand-in-hand with existing educational or
clinical support, adding depth and understanding that can ease family
stress and reduce pressure on schools.
Spotting the signs your child needs support
In the early years, emotional struggles don’t always present in obvious ways. Signs that a child may need extra help include:
● Frequent tantrums or strong emotional reactions.
These behaviours often indicate that a child’s nervous system is
under strain, making it difficult for them to regulate emotions, follow
instructions or feel safe and calm.
Why early movements matter
One of the most overlooked causes of developmental and emotional
difficulties is the presence of retained primitive reflexes – automatic
movements babies are born with that should fade as they grow.
When these reflexes persist beyond infancy, they can interfere with
everything from posture and balance to attention, learning and
coordination. For example, a child who startles easily, fidgets
constantly or avoids certain movements, may still be affected by these
early reflexes. Holistic specialists like Quester Therapies can
introduce specific movement patterns and exercises to help integrate
these reflexes. They also offer an app, Addressing Neurodiversity with a
four-month programme of exercises that is interactive so parents can
get in touch if any difficulties arise.
Holistic therapy doesn’t just benefit the child – it often brings a sense of clarity and empowerment to the whole family.
Whole family benefits
Holistic therapy doesn’t just benefit the child – it often brings a
sense of clarity and empowerment to the whole family. Parents are
actively involved in the process and supported with practical tools they
can use at home.
This focus on education and connection helps parents feel more
confident in responding to their child’s needs, while also building
stronger bonds through play, movement and shared progress.
At Quester Therapies, children are assessed and supported according
to their unique emotional, physical, and developmental profile. Some may
only need simple nutritional changes to reduce mood swings or improve
sleep. Others may benefit from auditory retraining, which helps the
brain better process sounds – essential for calm and concentration.
For children with complex needs, Blueprint Kinesiology combines
genetic insight with energy therapy to uncover inherited imbalances that
may influence mood, attention or behaviour.
Find out more
Quester Therapies, based in Berkshire, offer holistic support for
children aged 5+ experiencing emotional, behavioural or learning
challenges. Remote and in-person sessions are available.
AnneMarie Smellie is a holistic therapist with over 20 years’
experience. She is also a guest speaker at the TES SEND Show 2025, the
UK’s leading special educational needs and disabilities conference held
in London in October.
